"'If any man would come after me, let him deny himself.' The disciple must
say to himself the same words Peter said of Christ when he denied Him: 'I know
not this man.' Self-denial is never just a series of isolated acts of
mortification or asceticism. It is not suicide, for there is an element of
self-will even in that. To deny oneself is to be aware only of Christ and no
more of self, to see only Him who goes before and no more the road which is too
hard for us. Once more, all that self-denial can say is: 'He leads the way, keep
close to Him.'"
--Dietrich Bonhoeffer


